i have been with this girl for 4 months and my feelings 4 her r so deep. the problem is her family is kinda broken. her mum left them more than 10 yrs ago n the next time they hear of her is in the news as a meth user n a suspect of 2 murders. her dad is an alcoholic, a month ago , her uncle shot himself n she suspects he was doing meth too. besides that she always talks bout her family members doing drugs. am so scaged that she might turn up to be the same thing coz it seems its running in the family. am afraid i wont love her when she changes to be this horrible. please advise me if i should quite dating her be4 am disappointed,hurt broken and upset.
sorry i have nothing to say but good luck with that one… go to a professional for help
Never date a serial killers daughter.
ok so her family history is a lilttle…out there. but that doesn’t mean she WILL be. don’t assume she’ll be liek the rest of em. just be supportive and keep her away from drugs.
so sad but if she sees how much this is hurting her she might not be the same
You don’t truly love her. If you did, you wouldn’t be waiting for the other shoe to drop. Love isn’t conditional. And love definitely does NOT play judge, jury and executioner. Her mother hasn’t even been tried yet for the crimes and you’ve already labeled her a serial killer! Haven’t you ever heard of innocent until proven guilty??
My advice is to leave this woman so she can find a REAL man, one that won’t try and convict her mother or wait for her to “change”.
People aren’t all the same lots of people grew up in broken homes,got beat and so on,that doesn’t mean they will beat there own kids, in fact most of them grew up just the opposite, because they lived with it and know what it can do to a person..
you shold ask her how she feel s about doing drugs and that you have to talk to her if you say that you lover her she might not ever do drugs so if you brake up with her and than she neve does drugs how would you feel so talk to her
take her away from that, invite her over alot as friends, make her apart of your family later on down the road ask her
just because her family members do those things doesnt mean she will. in fact, having her family members fall down in front of her eyes, gives her an even bigger reason to stay strong and become something….dont judge her on the way her family acts, u of all people need to believe in her
being an idiot isn’t genetic, however depression, addictive personality and mental illness can be. Maybe she should go to counseling. You should give her a chance and not judge her based on her families actions.
wow, well take it slow and use caution. they say scitzophrenia runs in families and is genetic. People that use drugs are self medicators. If there are already so many examples of meth users in the family it may be compensation for a deep seeded mental health issue in the family. Meth destroys the mind, so whatever stress it is that is relieved by the drug for escapist purposes will find the symptom returning so much worse than before. the things meth are made out of will literally eat your brain. its pretty much like taking corrosion and placing it on the terminals of your car battery.
Perhaps without the drug these people would be much more stabilized and functional, but if meth is what seems to be the big release from whatever mental issues they have I suspect schitzophrenia or depression.
You should inquire these things about your girlfriend with her, have her confide to you and have her checked out with double and triple opinions.
if you really love her then you should care for her and support her no matter what happens. hopefully she will never follow in the footsteps of her parents.
you should be the guiding light for her