Alright, i don’t know how long this is but anyway its about me and my ex bestfriend…
I’ve been friends with her since I was 11 and we were very close and never ever faught up until highschool. She got this boyfriend she was all over – was bad news.. she always saw him and I would go months without seeing my ‘best friend’ and so we got into this whole arguement because we would never hang out anymore (even if I tried to call her, we never ended up meeting up) anyway she ended up breaking up with her boyfriend because he was bad news (as in he did cocaine, crack etc) and we became friends again and then she got this new job and frankly im not sure quite what it is, I’m pretty sure she works as a bartender.. were not sure but.. she sells coke at the bar.. she full of money and what not.. anyway so this whole thing has repeated itself. Its almost 4 months later and I havent seen her – since before new years eve! and this is supposively my ‘best friend’ she wrote on my facebook wall the other day and said hey happy early birthday, what are you gonna do for it… i mean i really really dont want to be friends with her anymore.. but i dont want to just ram that in her face.. what should I say to her? I want to write her a private message but I truely do want to be nice to her in the message.
I don’t think you should be friends with her anymore. Tell her that your lives have gone in different directions than you thought it would. Tell her what you feel. You just have to be honest with her.