i called my ex up because i was missing him and just wanted to talk. i ended the relationship, but we both still have feelings. he was heavy into drugs and alcohol when we got together, and cutting, so i broke up with him. hoping to hear he calmed down, i called and he told me that he wasn’t smoking pot as much, but started doing cocaine. i was horrified, so i broke the news that i was thinking of getting my ged or graduating early because i wasn’t feeling challenged in school and i want to work before i go off to college.
his exact response -
“if you leave, i will get worse. i’ll start smoking again and drinking more. honestly, i’ll kill myself if you’re not around.”
what do i do? i’m so scared and i feel so trapped…
i in a similar situation i hav a kid with my bf and he said if i leave hell kill me so yea im still here i dont no wat u should do coz if u do leave u dont want to have that on ur head if he does top himself so its a tricky situation mayb u should talk to his parents bout this so they can keep an eye on him and get him sum help sounds like her needs it asap
Leave anyway and call the nearest mental health center, he needs help and you do not need to feel bad because of him