Question by 12345: Boyfriend caught drinking?
Yesterday my boyfriend was caught drinking alcohol in the school. I know it’s very bad but he’s not alcoholic. I guess he was just trying to be cool and fit in with his friends. Now he’s expelled. I don’t know what to do, I just talked to him and asked whether he was sad and about his parents (they are very mad at him) and he told me that everything was OK. He will start a new school on monday. I’m disspointed but on the other hand I love him. It was very bad of him to be drinking at school. I mea seriously “what was he thinking”
By the way, I never drink. I don’t smoke, I have nothing to do with those illegal stuff but I just love my boyfriend. And I know what kind of a guy he is (extremely cute, very cool, hot guitar player), I love him with all my heart. My parents and friends probably wouldn’t approve of our relationship anymore (bad news travel fast). What do you think I should do? Should I talk to my parents about him? or just pretend as if we’ve broken up?
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Answer by THE Sam
talk to your parents about it. Let them know that his decision was his and you have never partaken in any acts like that when you’re with him.
Let them know, he doesn’t do that stuff around you.
I don’t approve of parents telling their kids that they can’t date. That’s just so militant.
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I think if you really care about him like you have said you should stay with him. I also feel like this, You can’t control anyone so if you can’t take it, leave him.
he is a loser, he doesn’t love you otherwise he wouldn’t have hurt u like that.
kick him to the curb
ok look u need to really figure out ALL the reason y u love him and tell him that he needs to stop because u dont want him to end up bad.. so if he dont give that up for u break up with him. then when u know whts goin on tell ur parents ur desicion.
dont tell them anything than they wont like him!
You should always be truthful about your relationship to your parents. Tell them what you feel for him, and that, just because he may make some bad choices, that doesn’t make him a bad person.
And talk to your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel about his drinking. If he cares about you, he’ll stop, or at least make an effort to quit.
God knows what your needs are, even if you’re not religious, & he’ll help you, and your boyfriend, through this.
talk to your parents about it. if they love and trust you they should approve of you and him and understand your point of view
You thinking he is “hot” and “extremely cute” does not translate into love. If you don’t do all that stuff and he does, he will just pull into his downward spiral. Make sure you talk to your parents, they will find out, and they WILL be mad you didn’t tell them. How old is he anyway? Can you really be with someone that is going to pull you down?