Question by mcdtracy2002: Should I take him back?
I was in a relationship with an addict. We used and made meth together and was eventually raided by the police in May of this year. Since the raid I have been through residential treatment and completed it and am now fully involved with Narcotics Anonymous and am truly sincere about my recovery. During our relationship prior to the raid, we were abusive to eachother. He was physicallly and emotionally abusive and I was emotionally abusive towards him. I know today that meth can and will change your personality. With that in mind, after he gets out of his rehab program (hes been clean for 6 months) are things going to be okay? Can someone be abusive because of the drugs only? Can abusive behaviors change with sobriety?
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Answer by itslikelearningtofly
i wouldnt trust him
i would move on from your past to create a better future, which you’ve been good at doing so far.
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things could change, but dont be quick and hasty with a new relationship. make sure before you get serious
please answer mine
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I wouldn’t, but it’s up to you.
SWEETIE I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR SAYING BUT THE THING IS THAT’S A QUESTION THAT YOU’VE JUST ANSWERED YOURSELF,
WHY SHOULD YOU HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO’S ABUSIVE.
(YOU DON’T DESERVE IT TRUST ME )WHAT YOU NEED TO FOCUS ON AT THIS POINT IN TIME IS YOUR RECOVERY NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS.
THERE ISN’T THAT MUCH LOVE IN THE WORLD TO HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THAT FOOLISHNESS.
ASK YOURSELF IS THAT REALLY SOMETHING THAT YOU WANT TO PUT UP WITH LONG TERM.
seeing things iv seen in my life i say don’t take him back because he will destroy what your future may hold like good jobs, cars, money, etc you need to stay single for a while before you make any bad decisions i know i sound kinda a pushy but i hate drugs with a passion because my friend died from a cocaine over dose so i just hated drugs after that but still main point stay single or get a better boyfriend of will not fight with you and will love and care for you.