Question by Cinderelle: Please guide me if I reacted wrong with him, I get wreck less, scared, shall i give him chance or i leave?
my fiancée an addict from 10 years I discovered after our engagement and I went with him to ( N A ) Narcotics Anonymous is an international, community-based association of recovering drug addicts and he’s in recovery and made 5 month now (you can’t all imagine the effort I did with him to pass his first steps) he was doing great and his supervisor was so happy from his result and suddenly he relapsed two days ago and he refused to back again to the (Na) and his supervisor called in the morning to come to his house to convince him to restart again, once he saw me he fall down with non stop crying at after talking to him I told him that he betrayed my trust and he’s the one who choose to leave me not me, and I told him I will ask you one thing before I leave your life, go again to (NA) and start over.
At the end he agree to go with them but he keep crying with holding my hand don’t want me to go away from him.. we all shocked from the way he act as he’s very strong person.
Best answer:
Answer by eminems_number1fan4eva
You dont have very good english.
if he is making an effort than that is better than nothing..
Give him a chance to restart..
But don’t stay with him if he keeps going back to the drugs.
What do you think? Answer below!
This is not a problem you can fix – all the love in the world isn’t going to fix it.
Making conditions like going to NA are going to passify you for a while, but unless he deals with his addictions YOU will go through the same pattern over and over of making demands and getting hurt
It was sad to do so. This is emotional blackmail and conditional love. If you can’t love him no matter what, how do you expect him to trust you?
it was really sad, and I hope you distence yourself enough from the problem to see it better. After all; this is your life and your love, it was just my opinion as you asked for it.
don’t leave
relapse is a part of recovery
his behavior is due to the substance
be strong