Question by DG: divorce after 21 years marriage, 32 year together?
June 2004 I was served divorce papers after 21 years of marriage and 32 years with this man. My divorce was final March 2005. I did not expect this or welcome it at all. We have 4 daughters ages 28, 19, 15, and 11. We were definetly having problems but the kind of man he is/was would of taken action to safe our family. I used drugs and of course we both had since high school (grew up in the 70′s) but I admit that I became an addict using meth and he hated it. He did not become addicted. At that time he did’nt use very often. It was wrong, put it’s in the past. I would use, then try to stop and work on “us” , but he would not particapate, basically he just became emotionally checked out. I suppose I assumed we would work it out sooner or later. I offered to go to counseling with him, but he thought only I needed help. Needless to say, I went to rehab, completely stopped when this happened. What I want to know is what do I do now. It’s 2 years, (today was the day) and I love hi
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Answer by Erica T
Check this out:
If your really off drugs you got to get it together.
Every time you know your gonna see him make sure you look happy and healthy.
Work on your body get you some vitamins.
Flush your system and you soul.
Get sexy and livin up yourself.
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This what the wide destructive path that meths is leaving across the landscape of families. The man had enough of your addictions. Your children should be with him until you are completely clean. Get back into rehab and join Narcotic Anonymous. Good luck, dear,you are going to need it.
That is a horrible story and sad. But I say you are doing great since you are completely off the drugs…just stay strong and DO NOT relapse… PLEASE…
It is great that you still love him, you would not be human if you didnt. you were with him for a long time.
I am sure he has a love for you tucked in his heart some where. I say just stay clean, stable and let him see you this way…. Be happy and maybe he will realize that you are strong and can be a person not using. We cannot promise you miricles…. Just be yourself. Get involved with something in the community and stay busy doing possitive interaction. You will or may meet a nice person.
Remember…. things happen for a reason, change is hard. And…one door closes and another one opens. there is something great waiting for you at the other side.
It’s hard to let go of the devil in the bottle, but sounds like you have it beat. Don’t go back, Take some time for you and enjoy it. It hard to lose the man you love and the convenience of the relationship. Take it one day at a time… good luck and faith
cant help u
wat i can do is i can marry one of ur daughter who is 19 or eveen can marry 28 one