Question by babydoll101: Is it normal and healthy to be obsessed with intercourse?
My husband is so sick and tired and hates the fact that I am obsessed with sex. He thinks I’m crazy. He calls me a ninfo and that I should seek help he say’s that sex for me is an addiction and he calls it my drug. I can’t help it. He also said I’m ahead and he can’t keep up with me he said I’m like a 18 year old. I enjoy it I believe it’s healthy. What does anyone think?
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Answer by INFP
I hope to marry someone like you and your husband is a very lucky man! hahahaha
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he’s complaining? wow maybe you should be asking if there is anything wrong with him. Is there anything wrong with your relationship? usually when men start to not want sex there is something going on.
YESit is very healthy asp for your relationship…… i believe that if he truely loves u he would be happy with that. i 4 1 realy love my husband bt sometimes i dnt feel like sex and he is always in to it and im sure he would really love u.
Then call me.
its healthy but you have too consider hubby capability. don’t just look at you be both sided.
It’s not normal to be obsessed with anything, whether it’s sex or anything else.
But I do wish I could help you, I’m in a similar situation myself.
Many marriages didn’t work out because one partner was obsessed with sex. And if your husband is at the point where he is so sick and hates the fact that you’re obsessed with sex then you need to do something about this. Right now it’s not important what we think but what is important is what your husband thinks. You must know that most of the time an obsession does become an addiction. And maybe you are at the point where your sex drive has become an addiction. Your husband told you that you should seek help and I also think that you should get help for this. If you don’t get help and if you continue to be obsessed this way you will end losing your husband. Is that what you want? There is nothing wrong is getting help for this because this is something that can be controlled. So please don’t take this lightly because if you don’t want to ruin your marriage then get the help that you need.
“Sex is healthy but too much sex is not”… Too much in all means can’t be good. Look, the normal frequency of sex among couples is 2-3 times a week?? Too much sex have lot of disadvantages it carries.
1st – It will definitely lessen your body resistance
2nd – Your memory slows down gradualy
3rd – alarming hairloss/falling hairs
etc..
One remedy I read on how to control your urge or to get rid of your addiction is do the abstinence.
Do I sound I came from your situation?? But I’m guy though. =)
It is very normal to be crazy about sex. Sex is so wonderful and a health medium. However the Lord did not make everyone with equal horniness. Every individual has different sex appetite based on the way he/she was brought up, strictness about sex at home, childhood traumas like sexual abuse and age.
However since your husband feels he can’t keep up with you, you may want to consider slow down. You can always have self gratification… so don’t make the poor guy feel bad.