Question by JZ: I am 32, and engaged. My fiance is 35 and used Meth alot in his 20s, What will happen if i get pregnant?
I am also very healthy, non smoker, never a drug user, and have 1 healthy daughter from a previous marriage. I am concerned about the health of our baby, and if there will be any damaging short or long term effects.
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Answer by ~CountryGirl~
It will have no effect don’t worry.
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I think there is nothing to worry about
My ex used lots of drugs during HS and I have two children that are for the most part healthy.
You will have a radioactive baby
I had a friend who used Methamphetamine a lot without knowing she was pregnant. Once she found out, of course, she stopped doing it. Now, she has a healthy baby boy with no problems. Since your fiancee used almost 10 years ago, I don’t think there should be anything wrong.
Your baby should be just fine dont worry
Hopefully he didn’t screw up his sperm. But you won’t know until you get pregnant. He may not have sufficient sperm that can reach the eggs.
Talk to a professional who knows what a lot of meth can do to his body.
Take care
The only thing is that your child will have an addictive personality if they decide to do drugs. But your child will be fine. No damage to your baby. Just make sure when there in middle school you tell them not to use drugs and make it clear.
My father was an hardcore alcholic and when I drink I can keep drinking like its water and still be fine but I will want more and more. Even though I have no business drinking alchol because I am underage. But thats how I get as oppose to my peers there done after about 3-4 drinks.
It shouldn’t have much effect if he’s clean now. Your biggest concern should be how clean is he? Was he addicted and is he recovering from the addiction?
What are the chances he could start using again, particularly if there is pressure in the relationship? If that were to happen the safety of you, your daughter and unborn child could all be in danger. Make sure this matter is resolved.
If it is, I think everything will be just fine. You can strengthen and help each other and your children should be healthy.
Best wishes.
there is nothing to worry about ,
i used meth alot adn then i gave up and never turned back and then two years later gave birth to a very healthy little girl so dont worry
Does this man have good enough character in there to father a baby will the daughter you have now feel pushed out of the way. You’re not married yet so my first question is he good husband and father to my daughter.
don’t worry
I don’t think that should be a problem