Question by Mike: Why do some women think that healthy, responsible men are “boring” and “too nice”?
Does that mean that a guy who cheats on you and spends the house payment on meth is “fun” and “exciting”?
Answers of “women want a little of both” will not be accepted. Either you want a healthy guy or you don’t. It’s that simple.
Best answer:
Answer by juicyher
Why do men think that all women think that healthy responsible men are boring or too nice? There are plenty of women who prefer a healthy, responsible man that will be nice to them. Perhaps you are just trying to mingle with the wrong women?
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Being healthy or not or responsible or not, has nothing to do with ‘boring’ or ‘too nice’. If you are boring, you are boring. It’s a subjective description but there’s no point in someone being with you who doesn’t feel interested in you. You might be the greatest guy in the world or an azz…but if she’s not diggin’ you, what’s the point?
Same goes in reverse…why should a guy be with a ‘great gal’ he’s just not interested in? If he finds her boring then he should move on.
You are mixing issues to try to make the women look bad, instead of just accepting that not every woman you dig, will feel the same about you. Patience…
I dig healthy guys…healthy INTERESTING (to me) guys. You’re mixing apples and oranges. They are both fruit, but the similarities stop there.
treat me like a queen and you will reign over your kingdom for the rest of your days…
You’re stretching it a little.
Women want to meet nice men but they also want men with a spine. A man capable of debating his point, standing his ground, has is own opinion, his own dreams etc.
What we don’t like is a man that agrees with every word we say, that his opinion is always the one we have, a man that always says ‘you chose’, ‘I don’t mind’, ‘ what ever you want’ , ‘ I’ll take what you take’.
It’s not all black and white like you’re trying to make it look.
I don’t think that is true about the vast majority of women. The women who prefer “bad boys” have mental health issues.
However, being “too nice” might be code word for not pursuing her aggressively. (being a pansy, indecisive, too much of a pushover, etcetera) You can be nice, and yet manly
I am married to a man who is healthy and responsible. We’ve had 44 years of what other people could consider very boring. I love my husband for NOT ever trying drugs and for being a responsible, working man who comes home every night. I do have a friend who got too bored with a really nice fellow who loved her very much. After having 2 children that were grown, with this fellow, she just dropped the good husband off at her mom’s house to live! He lived with her mom until he died………no hanky panky there. She was married 3 times in a short while after divorcing him. I think the good husband was not appreciated until she tried another type of husband.
I LOVE guys who take care of themselves, eat healthy (preferably vegetarian), and are polite. I’ll take that over a party-guy any day.
Besides, party guys are not interested in me anyway.